Always waitin' for someone
  To make me happy, pick me up
  I realize that someone is me
  What you call life, that ain't livin'
  Bless the child that's got his own
  It's my season, now I stand alone
  Just thought that I would let you know
  Some things you just can't control
    [Chorus:]
  Should I wear my hair in a ponytail?
  Should I dress myself up in chanel?
  Do I measure me by what you think?
  Absolutely not, absolutely not
  If I go to work in a mini-skirt
  Am I givin' you the right to flirt?
  I won't compromise my point of view
  Absolutely not, absolutely not
    Told myself I won't complain
  But some things have got to change
  Not gon' be a victim of
  All your social push and shove
  Right or wrong, you judge the same
  My picture never fit your frame
  What you thought, you'll never know
  You can't see me with your mind closed
    [Repeat Chorus]
    Now I see, life means more to me
  More than fancy clothes
  More than you'll ever know
  All the ugly words that I heard you say
  Made me stronger everyday
  Now I live my life for me
    [Repeat Chorus 3x]
    Oh, ooh
  Woah, oh, ooh
  All my ladies say
  Oh, ooh
  Woah, oh, ooh
  Absolutely not, absolutely not
  All my ladies say
  Oh, ooh
  Woah, oh, ooh
  All my ladies say
  Absolutely not, absolutely not